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教導孩子良言 --

童年生活的弔詭: 兒女都盼望接受父母的領導，但他們同時又

堅持, 父母要首先賺取這個領導他們的權利, 父母不該放過賺取

領導權利的機會。


 (箴言sidebar -- 父母如何賺取領導權利呢? 

就是藉著劃清和保持兒女行為的界線, 不讓他們成功地挑戰父母

的權威)


The ultimate paradox of childhood is that boys and girls want 

to be led by their parents, but they insist that their mothers 

and fathers earn the right to lead them. We should not miss 

the opportunity to do so.

若太早給兒女自主權, 他們容易作出荒唐事; 若太遲給兒女自主

權, 則會引致他們反叛。
Power granted too early produces folly, but power granted too

late brings rebellion.

-- Dr. James Dobson (Focus on the Families)